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Friday, April 30, 2010
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Stories from the Frontlines: Captain Rebecca H. Elliott's Letter to President Barack Obama
Today's letter is from former Army Captain Rebecca H. Elliott:
Dear Mr. President,
I am the mother of two young children, and an Iraq war veteran. I joined up just like my dad – a retired Army officer – and my sister, who currently serves in the Guard. My brother is a reservist and has been deployed to both Iraq and Afghanistan. Two weeks ago, our family gathered together as he is leaving again for Afghanistan -- his 4th deployment. Even my husband, Jay, served as an officer in the Air Force until 2008.
Like my dad, I chose the Army. I reached the rank of Captain and was a platoon leader in the military police. I was there during the invasion of Iraq in 2003.
I had some of the best NCO's (non-commissioned officers) in the Army who could accomplish any mission. Several members of my platoon received decorations for valor during the combat phase of Operation Iraqi Freedom.
On my last day of active duty, some of my old squad leaders revealed to me that one of my former team leaders was gay. They figured it was safe to tell me, as I was leaving the Army. My first feelings on the matter were, frankly, a little surprised, followed by complete indifference.
I was surprised because I had never suspected the soldier of being gay. But then, I never really had any thoughts about her sexual orientation whatsoever.
When I reflected on it, it didn't make one bit of difference in how she performed her job or how she related to the other soldiers in the platoon. She had the respect of her squad leaders (fairly conservative men, mind you), who kept her secret and continued working with her side-by-side for years.
As an officer, I would have been bound by my position to report such “credible information” that would have led to the discharge of a great NCO. I am glad that I was never placed in the position of having to choose between one of my soldiers and enforcing this terrible law, which I feel is unfair and wrong.
Please, Mr. President – at this critical time -- do not allow those serving their country to be forced to choose between good, honorable soldiers, and upholding an unfair law.
Please, do not continue to allow gays and lesbians in the service to have to choose between hiding a part of their identity and continuing to serve their country.
Please, help Congress repeal “Don't Ask Don't Tell” now.
Respectfully,
Former Capt. Rebecca H. Elliott
United States Army
Immigration bill outline includes provision for same-sex partners
A document circulating on Capitol Hill reportedly outlines GLBT provisions of a possible immigration-reform bill.
The outline includes the language, "It will eliminate discrimination in the immigration laws by permitting permanent partners of United States citizens and lawful permanent residents to obtain lawful permanent resident status."
Steve Ralls, a spokesman for Immigration Equality, said the development was a "historic step forward."
The outline includes the language, "It will eliminate discrimination in the immigration laws by permitting permanent partners of United States citizens and lawful permanent residents to obtain lawful permanent resident status."
Steve Ralls, a spokesman for Immigration Equality, said the development was a "historic step forward."
New York's NewFest nabs Marc Jacobs as presenting sponsor
“The creative energy Marc Jacobs brings to the world of fashion has also inspired and influenced the world of art and culture, not to mention LGBT activism. We couldn’t be prouder to have the support of Marc Jacobs as our presenting sponsor,” said Larry Burnett, Co-President of the NewFest Board.
“Marc Jacobs has always been committed to giving back to our community.” said Robert Duffy, Vice Chairman and President of Marc Jacobs, “The opportunity to help foster creativity and support images and stories of the LGBT community that might not be heard otherwise is very important to us.”
In The Life: Aging gay
This month, 'In The Life' explores what it means to grow old as a gay person in America - how a generation once at the frontlines of establishing the modern LGBT movement finds, in what should be their golden years, new challenges living life openly gay. It's About Time highlights the leaders spearheading a national effort to protect the rights of LGBT senior citizens and care for our elders. (available to watch online May 1st)
The Center is looking for new Board members
The Center is seeking two candidates to serve on its Board of Directors. The mission of The Center is to engage, empower, enrich, and advance the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender community of Colorado. Its vision is to be the premier lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) organization in the Rocky Mountain Region. It works to advance a vibrant quality of life for the LGBT community, inspired by the principles of leadership, excellence, integrity, equality, inclusivity, healthy living, and community connection.Board meetings are held six times per year and are held on the third Tuesday of the month. Board members are appointed for three year terms of office and receive no financial compensation for their service on the Board.
Click here for more information.
Hawaii State House Approves Civil Unions Bill
The Hawaii State House today passed HB 444 by a 31-20 vote. The bill provides that equal rights and responsibilities of married couples in Hawaii be afforded to thousands of non-married couples in the state – including same-sex couples. The bill now heads to Governor Linda Lingle for her consideration.
“Equality Hawaii is proud of the actions taken by the fair-minded majority in the Hawaii State House to pass HB 444,” said Alan Spector, legislative affairs co-chair for Equality Hawaii. “This bold declaration that all of Hawaii’s families should be treated equally under the law is commendable and long overdue. We thank all those who have worked long and hard in this struggle for equality and urge Governor Lingle to immediately sign this bill into law.”
Earlier this year, in a move chided by supporters and opponents alike, Speaker Calvin Say pushed through a motion to indefinitely postpone the bill. The final vote in the House came after supporters passed a motion to suspend the rules, allowing for a simple majority vote to consider the legislation. Without the suspension of the rules, the bill’s supporters would have needed a two-thirds majority vote to consider the legislation.
“The Human Rights Campaign congratulates the Hawaii House of Representatives for recognizing that all families in Hawaii need the same protections,” said Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign. “We have been a partner with advocates for equality in the Aloha State for decades and today we celebrate this victory with them. We strongly urge Governor Lingle to sign this bill into law to protect all Hawaii’s families.”
The Human Rights Campaign has worked closely with Equality Hawaii since 2008 to build both public and legislative support for HB 444. Through this joint effort, thousands of phone calls, emails, postcards and handwritten letters have been generated urging legislators to approve this legislation. HRC and Equality Hawaii are launching action alerts to our members in the state encouraging them to urge the Governor to sign the bill. More on HRC’s work in Hawaii is at www.hrcbackstory.org/category/states/hawaii/.
The bill now moves to Governor Linda Lingle’s desk where she may sign the bill, veto it or allow it to become law without her signature after 45 days.
“Equality Hawaii is proud of the actions taken by the fair-minded majority in the Hawaii State House to pass HB 444,” said Alan Spector, legislative affairs co-chair for Equality Hawaii. “This bold declaration that all of Hawaii’s families should be treated equally under the law is commendable and long overdue. We thank all those who have worked long and hard in this struggle for equality and urge Governor Lingle to immediately sign this bill into law.”
Earlier this year, in a move chided by supporters and opponents alike, Speaker Calvin Say pushed through a motion to indefinitely postpone the bill. The final vote in the House came after supporters passed a motion to suspend the rules, allowing for a simple majority vote to consider the legislation. Without the suspension of the rules, the bill’s supporters would have needed a two-thirds majority vote to consider the legislation.
“The Human Rights Campaign congratulates the Hawaii House of Representatives for recognizing that all families in Hawaii need the same protections,” said Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign. “We have been a partner with advocates for equality in the Aloha State for decades and today we celebrate this victory with them. We strongly urge Governor Lingle to sign this bill into law to protect all Hawaii’s families.”
The Human Rights Campaign has worked closely with Equality Hawaii since 2008 to build both public and legislative support for HB 444. Through this joint effort, thousands of phone calls, emails, postcards and handwritten letters have been generated urging legislators to approve this legislation. HRC and Equality Hawaii are launching action alerts to our members in the state encouraging them to urge the Governor to sign the bill. More on HRC’s work in Hawaii is at www.hrcbackstory.org/category/states/hawaii/.
The bill now moves to Governor Linda Lingle’s desk where she may sign the bill, veto it or allow it to become law without her signature after 45 days.
Gay Days Film Festival 2010
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Jobs: Mile High Meth Project Counselor/Therapist
The Mile High Meth Project is looking for a full-time project therapist:The Mile High Meth Project a program of ELEMENT supported by The Council on Substance Abuse and Mental Health is seeking a qualified Substance Abuse Counselor/Therapist as the Project Therapist for the Mile High Meth Project. This individual will be responsible for the management of the M.H.M.P and participants. Knowledge and work related experience of gay men and gay culture and other related health issues such as HIV/AIDS, is required. Candidate should have a degree in human services and a CAC II or equivalent licensure. To apply, send cover letter, resume, and references to jobs@milehighcouncil.org.
Jobs: Brothas4Ever Outreach Coordinator
To apply, submit resume and cover letter by May 11, 2010 to ITAV, PO Box 471733, Aurora, CO 80047, or email to ISLAurora@aol.com.
Job Description:
1. Provides intensive outreach to contact African-American same gender loving men to improve to recruit for Brothas4Ever program, provide prevention counseling, distribute condoms, and make referrals for needed resources.
2. Provides referrals, where indicated, to prevention counselor at It Takes a Village or another agency that may be more appropriate.
3. Recruit clients by speaking to agencies, and the general public about Brothas4Ever and It Takes a Village, and maintaining agency contacts.
4. Attend Brothas4Ever groups and events.
5. Provide back up testing to be able to provide HIV testing at B4E related events.
6. Represent It Takes a Village at pertinent community events and meetings, as assigned by Executive Director.
7. Develop resources for use by clients, including a comprehensive resource book.
8. Attend trainings that are useful and required for job performance, and attend mandatory agency meetings and trainings.
9. Attend It Takes a Village staff meetings.
Qualifications:
High school diploma or GED, Bachelor's degree desireable. At least two years of demonstrated experience working with men who have sex with men, people living in poverty, people of color, gay or bisexual men, substance users or people living with HIV. Knowledge of substance abuse and mental health issues pertaining to behavioral risk. Demonstrated experience working with African-Americans required. Computer skills required. Facilitator and outreach training within three months of hire. Excellent communication skills. Must have vehicle, valid driver's license and insurance.
CU-Boulder's Lavender Graduation
The gay community is invited to congratulate and celebrate the graduation of CU-Boulder's GLBT graduates and their parents, friends, and allies on Tuesday, May 4, from 5-7 p.m. at Koenig Alumni Center at CU. You're invited to Lavender GraduationIn addition, scholarship winners, award winners and the GLBT Resource Center staff and volunteers will be presented and honored.
The CU GLBT Alumni chapter is hosting the celebration and will present "grad packs" of alumni goodies and rainbow tassels to the graduates and an appetizer buffet will be served.
Get more information or RSVP at www.cualum.org.
Stories from the Frontlines: A military chaplain's letter to President Barack Obama
Below is a letter from a military chaplain who is currently serving and unable to identify himself publicly:
Dear Mr. President,
As an active-duty military chaplain who just returned from a 15-month deployment in Iraq, this is my appeal for justice:
Over the years some of us have buried our closest friends -- officers and enlisted, African American, Latinos, Native Americans, Asians, Whites, rich, poor, Protestants, Catholics, Muslims and Jews. They had the courage to make the supreme sacrifice in order for us to reap the bounties of freedom. We owe them a debt of gratitude which can never be repaid.
What is remarkable about these Marines, Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Coastguardsmen is they understood the personal risk when they answered the highest calling of our nation. What could be a nobler act then to give one’s life to one’s country, knowing that in their lives many freedoms would be denied them?
And when their story is told a significant piece of their life would be missing.
As they sleep under the crosses, the stars of David and the crescents there is no bigotry. There is no prejudice. There is no hatred. And within the sacred confines of their resting place there is no law of “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.” There is only purest democracy.
When the final cross has been placed in the last cemetery, will it only be then that we as a nation acknowledge our gay brothers and sisters who took the risks of life and truth to answer their nation’s highest calling? How many of these brave men and women lie in military graves and still hide in death?
They are among the unknown soldiers.
There are only a few who know the truth of those who lie in these graves. There are only a few who know the suffering and sorrow of those who mourn them in silence and fear. The nation remains silent and owes no allegiance to who they truly were nor does it honor their loved ones. What does that say of our sacred values?
If one gay person was killed in defense of America, issues such as the destruction of unit morale or the fear of people not wanting to join the military devalue their sacrifice. This is not about appeasing the uncomfortable feelings of a minority; this is a universal and transcendent matter of justice. America was built on the common Jewish and Christian heritage of justice when the Bible commands: “Justice, justice you shall pursue” (Deuteronomy 16:20).
It is easy for those who do not live in fear of being ‘outed’ to say: ‘We must wait and examine this law further.’ But when you have to watch what you say, where you go, and who you talk to, this erodes the human person. When you live in fear that the wrong pronoun slips through your lips, or a co-worker see you in public with your life long partner and you respond ‘this is just a friend’, this degrades your human self worth.
Gays and lesbians wait not for justice, for them justice is denied, but they wait for the ‘knock on the door.’ They are haunted daily waiting ‘to be found out.’
We went to foreign lands to wage war to liberate people so they would not have to live in the fear of waiting. But citizens of our own land who served nobly, who died to secure freedoms which they would never profit from, must live in fear waiting for justice.
"Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" is an unjust law. It degrades the human soul because it forces those who willingly serve to live in shameful humiliation because of deceit and fear. It undermines the very principles and values of what it means to be an American. Living the façade of a life goes against the Core Values of every Armed Service. How much longer is justice going to be denied? There comes a time when despair and fear must end.
Mr. President, we depend on your sense of justice and fairness to help end this gross injustice so we, as a nation, do not have to wait for the final marker to be placed in the last cemetery.
We ask you to lead the way in repealing this unjust law and replace it with a policy of non-discrimination that advances open and honest service. A law that is consistent with true American values and honors the sacrifices of so many who have served – and died -- in silence.
With deepest respect,
A military chaplain
The Black Party slideshow
DOCA announces 2010 Public Arts Walking & Bike Tours
Bollywood goes gay!
"It talks of the complexities [of being gay] in India," said Ashok Row Kavi, the editor of Bombay Dost, India's first gay magazine. "Taboos are still very strong, and hopefully it will change things."
Research shows gays, lesbians are much more likely to be bullied
People who identify as gay or bisexual, as well as straight people who have had a same-sex partner, are one to two times more apt to be the victims of childhood violence and are twice as likely to suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder, a study from the Harvard School of Public Health and Children's Hospital in Boston found.
More than four in 10 women who are sexual minorities and more than one in four men who are sexual minorities had been victims of violence or abuse as children, compared with about one in five straight women and men, according to a study of more than 34,000 adults.
More than four in 10 women who are sexual minorities and more than one in four men who are sexual minorities had been victims of violence or abuse as children, compared with about one in five straight women and men, according to a study of more than 34,000 adults.
MilehighGayGuy Advertiser Shout Out: Denver Center Theatre Academy
The Denver Center for the Performing Arts offers acting instruction year-round through the Denver Center Theatre Academy. Led by professional actors and teaching artists, classes are offered for both the beginning and advanced actor. The Denver Center Theatre Academy offers intensive one- or two-day sessions as well as multi-week courses.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Mile High Gala 2010 a big, sold-out success!
The Mile High Gala, HRC Colorado's annual dinner and auction in support of GLBT equality, took place Saturday, April 24, 2010 at Exdo and was a big, sold-out success!
I attended as a guest of Out Front Colorado and had myself a gay old time.
This was Mile High Gala/Exdo empty.
And this was Mile High Gala/Exdo full.
Mayor John Hickenlooper and Senator Michael Bennet were there.
My old friend Senator Pat Steadman was looking supercute.
As were 'Real World Washington D.C's' adorable Mike Manning and his equally adorable bf Tyler.
Here's the Out Front Colorado gang.
And here's Mile High Gala sponsor Purple Avocado's Adam Thodey (in his signature top hat) and Eric Alva, the gay soldier who was the first American injured in the Iraq War.
Wacky Chris Parente did a great job as emcee.
And that was the Mile High Gala in a nutshell.
I attended as a guest of Out Front Colorado and had myself a gay old time.
This was Mile High Gala/Exdo empty.
And this was Mile High Gala/Exdo full.
Mayor John Hickenlooper and Senator Michael Bennet were there.
My old friend Senator Pat Steadman was looking supercute.
As were 'Real World Washington D.C's' adorable Mike Manning and his equally adorable bf Tyler.
Here's the Out Front Colorado gang.
And here's Mile High Gala sponsor Purple Avocado's Adam Thodey (in his signature top hat) and Eric Alva, the gay soldier who was the first American injured in the Iraq War.
Wacky Chris Parente did a great job as emcee.
And that was the Mile High Gala in a nutshell.
Dining Out For Life: A conversation with Ted Allen
Dining Out For Life: A conversation with Ted AllenBy Drew Wilson
Dining Out For Life 2010 takes place on Thursday, April 29. Dine at any of the participating restaurants for breakfast, lunch or dinner, and 25 percent of your food bill goes directly to Project Angel Heart.
Find a list of participating Denver restaurants by clicking here.
I had a chance to talk to Dining Out For Life spokesperson Ted Allen ('Queer Eye,' 'Iron Chef America,' 'Chopped') about why Dining Out is such an important event, his love of food, and the societal impact of 'Queer Eye.'
Drew: How’d you get hooked up with Dining Out For Life?
Ted: They approached me three years ago and it just seemed like such a good fit. I was familiar with Dining Out from way back when I lived in Chicago. I participated in its very first year and now this is the 20th anniversary of the event.
Happy anniversary Dining Out For Life!
Yay! It’s such an elegant, simple idea. The real heroes in the HIV/AIDS movement are the activists and the people who dedicate their lives to it, but we can’t all do that. I’m busy. You’re busy. But anybody can go out to dinner and make a truly meaningful contribution in just one day. This thing raises four million dollars in one day. One day. Just grab a group of friends, head out to dinner, run up a big bill, and feel great about it.
You’re famous for your interest in, and love of, food. Where did that come from?
I’ve loved cooking since I was a child and my mom always encouraged it. I got a little more serious about it when I moved to Chicago and was working for I magazine. Restaurant coverage was a big part of the magazine and I got introduced to different kinds of cooking and wine and people. I find that people who work in and run restaurants tend to be really fun, crazy, generous people.
Why should people participate in Dining Out For Life?
It’s a great excuse to just throw your diet out the window! Seriously, we all have to eat. You’re going to eat on Thursday anyway so you might as well participate in Dining Out For Life. Every dollar raised in Denver for Dining Out stays in Denver so you are not only helping area restaurants and people with HIV/AIDS, but having a nice dinner with your friends. It’s a win/win situation.
Let me end with just one ‘Queer Eye’ question. Looking back, what impact do you think the show had?
It’s so funny how long it’s been.
I live next door to the Pratt Institute in Brooklyn and I walked outside the other day and this 18-year-old kid stopped me on the street and said, “I knew you lived in the neighborhood and I wanted to say hi because I used to watch ‘Queer Eye’ when I was 13. It helped me come out to my parents because they watched it.”
‘Queer Eye’ was an entertainment show and it had all sorts of trite and trivial aspects to it but the enduring thing about it to me was all the young people we heard from who said that because of the show’s popularity, it made it easier for them to come out.
We didn’t set out to be important but one of the consequences of being honest and open as a gay person is that it makes it easier for other people. For me was the best part.
Focus on Family tones down anti-gay rhetoric?
Although the group is still against marriage equality, Daly said he is "not going to demean human beings" as part its activism.
Religious coalition supports repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell
“Forcing our men and women in uniform to lie about who they are goes against the core religious tenets of all major faith traditions. Telling the truth is an American and a religious value,” said HRC Religion and Faith Program Director Harry Knox. “Not only does ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ harm our national security, it also fails to live up to the moral standards to which we aspire.”
The faith coalition wrote to U.S. Senators and House members today saying in part: “We write because we strongly believe this policy of government-sanctioned discrimination is morally wrong and entirely contrary to the teachings and values of our faith communities.”
“As military chaplains, we routinely work with service members whose faith traditions and belief systems are different from ours. The idea that repeal of DADT will infringe on our religious liberty is insulting to all the serving chaplains who professionally minister to and with people of diverse beliefs every day,” said Captain John F. Gundlach, a retired Chaplain of the U.S. Navy. “It is time to realize that bigotry – not one's sexual orientation – is incompatible with military service. It's time for gay Americans to be able to serve our country proudly and openly, with continued courage, honor, and commitment.”
Signatories to the letter are as follows:
Alliance of Baptists
American Conference of Cantors
American Friends Service Committee
Central Conference of American Rabbis
DignityUSA
Disciples Justice Action Network (Disciples of Christ)
The Episcopal Church
Equal Partners in Faith
The Fellowship
Friends Committee on National Legislation
Interfaith Alliance
Jewish Council for Public Affairs
Lutherans Concerned/North America
Metropolitan Community Churches
More Light Presbyterians
National Black Justice Coalition
National Council of Jewish Women
Other Sheep: Multicultural Ministries with Sexual Minorities
Rabbinical Assembly
Seventh-day Adventist Kinship International
The Sikh Coalition
Union for Reform Judaism
Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations
United Church of Christ, Justice and Witness Ministries
United Church of Christ, Wider Church Ministries
United Methodist Church, General Board of Church and Society
United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism
Unity Fellowship Church Movement
Women of Reform Judaism
A full copy of the letter is available at: www.HRCbackstory.org.
MilehighGayGuy Advertiser Shout Out: Elitch Lanes
Wanna bowl your butt off? Elitch Lanes is gay Denver's favorite bowling alley. Be sure to hit 'em up Tuesday or Thursday nights for Quarter Mania. Just pay a $5 entry fee and then get your games, shoes, and hot dogs for just a quarter each from 9 p.m. to close.
Ratings for season two finale of RuPaul's Drag Race biggest ever for Logo
Additionally, 'RuPaul’s Drag Race' has become the most streamed series ever on LogoTV.com with more than 9.8 million video streams season-to-date.
“‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ has consistently shown that even underdogs can be champions,” said Dave Mace, Senior Vice President, Original Programming, Logo. “And today, this ‘little-show-that-could’ has become a national and GLAAD Media Award-winning phenomenon.”
Randy Barbato, Fenton Bailey and Tom Campbell, Executive Producers from WOW Productions collectively commented, "In our 500 years in show business, it's hard to remember a series that has stirred such a deep and passionate following. The fact that ‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ celebrates what others have chosen to denigrate makes its crossover success that much more fabulous."
Fresh off the heels of the second season success, Logo announced the season three pickup of “RuPaul’s Drag Race” as well as the second season pickup of “Untucked.” “RuPaul’s Drag Race” order has been upped from 12 to 16 episodes and “Untucked” from 10 to 13 episodes. The new seasons are slated to premiere on the network in winter of 2011 and casting is currently underway. For more info, check out Rupaulsdragracecasting.com.
Pride Toronto celebrates 30th Anniversary
Pride Toronto takes place June 25 - July 4, 2010, and takes over 22 city blocks of diverse entertainment for an event unlike any other.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Get Yourself Tested: Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains offering $10 HIV/STD testing today
Today, Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains will offer $10 STD testing for chlamydia and gonorrhea and $10 HIV testing 27.
“The doctors and nurses at Planned Parenthood hear from young patients all the time that talking about getting tested is truly difficult but such a relief once they get talking,” said PPRM President and CEO Vicki Cowart. “We know that the GYT campaign works. In the first year of the campaign, PPRM health centers saw a ten-fold increase in testing compared to an average day – seeing nearly 1,500 people. We are committed to increasing the number of young people who get tested again this year. The good news is that testing for many STDs is simple, it doesn’t hurt, often does not even involve needles.”
MileHighGayGuy Advertiser Shout Out: National Teleprinting
Lodo's oldest and best all-purpose print shop, National Teleprinting has been located right downtown at 1420 Blake Street in Denver for the past 20 years. No matter what your printing needs, National Teleprinting will get the job done right and to your specifications.
National Teleprinting is proud to be a member of the Chamber of Commerce and has been nominated for Denver's 'Small Business of the Year' Award.
Be sure to support the local businesses that help support Colorado's gay community with their advertising dollars. Remember - when you shop gay and gay-friendly businesses, the money you spend remains in, and benefits, the LGBT community.
Denver PrideFest 2010: Join the Parade!
This year's Denver PrideFest parade promises to be the best ever and you can be a part of it. Build a float, drive a car, or just march with friends. However you want to show your Pride is OK but you do have to send in a parade application to be an official entrant in the parade. Just download your parade application here and send it in today.
Stories from the Frontlines: Capt. Joan Darrah's Letter to President Barack Obama
Every weekday morning as we approach the markup of the Defense Authorization bill in the Senate and House Armed Services Committees, SLDN and a coalition of voices supporting repeal, will share an open letter to the President from a person impacted by this discriminatory law.
Today's letter is from Captain Joan Darrah (pictured above):
Dear Mr. President,
My name is Joan Darrah and I served in silence under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) for almost two decades. I share my personal story with you as we’re at a critical point in the fight to repeal this discriminatory law.
We urgently need your voice and leadership as we lobby the Armed Services Committees and the full House and Senate to end DADT this year.
I’m sure, as I do, you remember exactly where you were on September 11, 2001.
At 8:30 a.m. that day, I went to a meeting in the Pentagon. At 9:30 a.m., I left that meeting. At 9:37 a.m., American Airlines Flight 77 slammed into the Pentagon and destroyed the exact space I had left less than eight minutes earlier, killing seven of my colleagues.
On Sept. 11, 2001, I was a lesbian Navy captain who, at that time, had more than 28 years of dedicated military service. My partner, Lynne Kennedy, an openly gay reference librarian at the Library of Congress, and I had been together for more than 11 years. Each day, I went to work wondering if that would be the day I would be fired because someone had figured out I was gay.
In spite of that stress, somehow Lynne and I had learned to deal with "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"; we had made the requisite sacrifices. I had pretended to be straight and had played the games most gays in the military are all too familiar with.
But after Sept. 11 our perspective changed dramatically. In the days and weeks that followed, I went to at least seven funerals and memorial services for shipmates who had been killed in the Pentagon attack. As the numbness began to wear off, it hit me how incredibly alone Lynne would have been had I been killed.
The military is known for how it pulls together and helps people; we talk of the "military family" which is a way of saying we always look after each other, especially in times of need. But none of that support would have been available for Lynne, because under "don't ask, don't tell," she couldn't exist.
In fact, had I been killed, Lynne would have been one of the last people to know, because nowhere in my paperwork or emergency contact information had I dared to list Lynne's name. This realization caused us both to stop and reassess exactly what was most important in our lives. During that process we realized that "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" was causing us to make a much bigger sacrifice than either of us had ever admitted.
Nine months later, in June 2002, I retired after 29 years in the U.S. Navy, an organization I will always love and respect.
Today, nine years after that fateful day at the Pentagon, I am now committed to doing everything I possibly can to get rid of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" so our military can finally be open to all qualified and motivated individuals who want to serve their country. This is the right step for our country, for our military, and for all gay men and lesbians.
As a veteran, and as a witness to the 14,000 men and women who have been discharged, I thank you for your bold words in your State of The Union address: “This year, I will work with Congress and our military to finally repeal the law that denies gay Americans the right to serve the country they love because of who they are. It's the right thing to do.”
I have great love and respect for our country, and I know that we will be a stronger and better country when we repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."
With great respect,
Capt. Joan Darrah
United States Navy (Ret.)
Things to do in Denver when you're gay: High Plains Vista Hike with GLS
This five-mile round trip journey traverses hill and dale with spectacular views of the Flatirons. Under a wide, welcoming sky, the GLS will look for the lonesome coyote, the Meadowlark, and the ubiquitous mountain biker.
This trail is very rocky in places but it gains its 300 feet of elevation very gradually and is therefore suited to the novice hiker. There is no need to pre-register for this outing, just show up at the trailhead on HWY 128 and be ready to hike at 6 p.m.
The making of the Dolce & Gabbana Calcio underwear campaign
Check out some behind-the-scenes footage for the new Calcio underwear campaign from Dolce & Gabbana featuring some sexy professional footballers. - via Daily Jocks
Monday, April 26, 2010
MileHighGayGuy Advertiser Shout Out: Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains
Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains provides services for gay men in the Denver metro area including STD Testing and Treatment, HIV Testing and Education, Prostate and Testicular Cancer Screenings, and Education and Referrals.
SLDN launches online campaign to repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell
"This is a critical hour as we're very close to reaching the 15 votes needed to include repeal to the Defense Authorization bill," said Aubrey Sarvis, executive director for Servicemembers Legal Defense Network. "We are just two or three votes away and we urge the President to engage now and voice his support to key Members of Congress for DADT to be repealed this year. By people sharing their personal stories on how this terrible law has impacted them, we can send a powerful message to the President and our own community as we build momentum going into this crucial vote."
Check out the track listing for Cyndi Lauper's new CD
“This is the album I’ve wanted to make for years,” said Lauper. “All of these beautiful songs, and all of the great players on the album, were carefully chosen because I’ve admired them my entire life. And I knew from the moment Alan Toussaint hit the keys in ‘Shattered Dreams’ that we were creating something really special.”
The complete track listing is as follows:
1. I'm Just Your Fool (feat. Charlie Musselwhite)
2. Shattered Dreams (feat. Allen Toussaint)
3. Early in the Morning (feat. Allen Toussaint & B.B. King)
4. Romance in the Dark
5. How Blue Can You Get (feat. Jonny Lang)
6. Down Don't Bother Me (feat. Charlie Musselwhite)
7. Don't Cry No More
8. Rollin and Tumblin’ (feat. Kenny Brown and Ann Peebles)
9. Down So Low
10. Mother Earth (feat. Allen Toussaint)
11. Cross Roads (feat. Jonny Lang)
12. Wild Women Don't Get the Blues
In The Heights opens Wednesday
'In The Heights,' winner of four 2008 Tony Awards including Best Musical, is a sensational show about chasing your dreams and finding your true home. With an amazing cast, incredible Tony Award-winning dancing and a thrilling Tony Award-winning score, 'In The Heights' is an exhilarating journey into a vibrant Manhattan community—a place where the coffee is light and sweet, the windows are always open and the breeze carries the rhythm of three generations of music.
RuPaul's Drag Race finale tonight - who will win?
Who do you think will win?
It's gotta be Jujubee, right?
Catch up on season two of 'RuPaul's Drag Race' at LogoTV.com.
Erika Jayne - Pretty Mess
Check out the latest from Erika Jayne - after three consecutive number one dance hits, will 'Pretty Mess' be her fourth?
Friday, April 23, 2010
Gay Republican, Democratic groups join in call for ENDA passage
"Employment non-discrimination enjoys strong bipartisan support, is good for American business, and goes a long way to ensure that all hard-working Americans are judged based solely on job performance. Congress must act now to pass ENDA," wrote Michael Mitchell of Stonewall Democrats and Log Cabin's Terry Hamilton.
No repeal for Don't Ask, Don't Tell this year?
That move would most likely push congressional action back to 2011, since the study is due on Dec. 1.
Some advocates who attended a high-level strategy meeting earlier this year are saying the White House never committed to legislative repeal in 2010.
Sen. Mark Udall, D-Colo., is among a group of legislators pushing back on the White House's apparent willingness to delay asking for a vote on repealing the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy. "We've had this discussion long enough," said Udall, speaking about the possibility that Congress won't vote on a repeal until after the Pentagon completes an implementation study. "The sooner we can end this policy, the better," said Rep. Jared Polis, D-Colo.
Evan Wolfson clears up some smokescreens used by anti-gay organizations in their fight against gay marriage
Wolfson is the founder and executive director of Freedom to Marry, an organization dedicated to winning marriage rights for the gay community.
Mile High Gala tomorrow night!
The Mile High Gala, HRC Colorado's annual dinner and auction in support of GLBT equality, takes place tomorrow night, April 24.Tickets are still available so rent yourself a tux and head on down to support HRC Colorado.
JACKtv: It's like QVC for gay men!
'JACKtv' offers home shopping television specifically for a stylish gay audience and presents it with a twist. The sales pitch is woven into an amusing plot following the sexy host of the show, Jack, as he dispenses advice to his friends on a wide array of topics - like which sexy pair of Rufskin brand jeans will showcase their best assets next time they hit the clubs.
And then all viewers have to do is call in or hop online to get a pair of those jeans for themselves.
Matthew Shepard Mixer at miniBAR this Sunday
Join the Matthew Shepard Foundation at miniBAR on Sunday, April 25 when special guest bartenders will mix up the night's signature $5 drink, which will be $5. Proceeds from the signature drink and a percentage of the evening's proceeds will benefit the Foundation.
miniBAR is supporting the GLBT community each month at its new "mini80s" weekly event. Every Sunday, the party begins at 4 p.m. with special features ($2 sliders, $2 PBRs, and $4 wells). DJ Rockstar Aaron, a master mixer of 80s music, will spin starting at 8 p.m. On a select Sunday each month, miniBAR will also select a GLBT-focused charity; a percentage of proceeds from that night will be donated back to the non-profit organization.
Things to do in Denver when you're gay: Foam Party at the Denver Eagle!
The Denver Eagle's notoriously naughty Foam Party takes place every other Friday.This Friday is that Friday.
Suds happen at 9 p.m.
Here they are! The finalists in the America's Gay Bachelor Contest - feel free to ogle and judge
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