Hunter: I think the answer is kind of multi-faceted. the multi-faceted answer. For one thing, we don’t have paid actors and we don’t make stuff up. I mean, we have to smooth out the edges sometimes - like, we require HIV testing before we have sex and stuff like that. Usually, on the videos someone will walk in and we’ll just start f***ing but really, the case is that we let them walk in, take a shower, do some paperwork and then we take it from there.
You have to do your due diligence.
Cole: Yeah, it looks off the cuff but sometimes we’ve been in discussions with those guys for several months or a year. We become friends. Also, I think people look at us and the reality of us and they like it. Me, I’m an older guy and I’m not beautiful looking or anything ...
Yes, you are…
Cole: Well, thanks. But we have a May/December situation going on and some people respond to that. Or people that are just normal looking like us respond to us. I think one big draw is that people see that we love each other and that we’re in a relationship but we can fool around with other people and still be in love and be together. I think a lot of people want that in a relationship but it can be difficult. That’s why so many gay guys would rather cheat than open up their relationship.
Too true, too true. Talk to me more about that. Why do you think that is?
Hunter: Well, there are a lot of answers but usually it’s lack of communication and lack of trust. If I love you but you’re not fulfilling me sexually, like say I like to be tied up but I heard you one day say that you thought it was weird. So I can’t bring it up to you and it’s in the back of your head that you really want something but you don’t think your guy would like it so you seek out that type of sex from someone else. You could be embarrassed or ashamed. Maybe you want anonymity. There are a million reasons but the main one is lack of communication because of insecurity. If there’s one piece of advice we can give to people it’s to talk to each other and be open and honest as you possibly can.
Cole and Hunter: Yeah!
Do you have anything you'd like to say to readers of MileHighGayGuy and Denver's gay community?
Cole: We’re just really excited to come to Colorado and glad that Tatiana invited us and we’re really looking forward to it.
Hunter: I know the scope of this event is kind of big and first and foremost we want everybody to know that we really love to meet all sorts of amazing people and we’re really jazzed about the party. It’s gonna be a total blast.
Cole: Tell your readers that we are above and beyond approachable so when they see us, they need to come say 'hi'.
Presented by Manhunt (site NSFW) and DJ Tatiana, PORNSTAR - Denver's sexiest monthly party - kicks off tonight featuring appearances from The Maverick Men and DJ Tristan Jaxx.
