Ask Eric Anything's Eric Kehela enjoys being a full time life enthusiast with a zest for the finer things in life which include positive thinking and manifesting a wonderful day each day.
With a passion for writing and performing, Eric uses his honed skills and intuition to guide, communicate and connect with the people around him.
The best advice he can give is, “Grow from light and always find truth within you. Reach for the galaxies, shoot beyond the stars and always aim with your heart.”
Dear Eric,
Lately I have noticed in my group of friends that they are always saying something hateful about other groups or people - women or minorities or Republicans or religious groups - and playing it off like they are jokes but it's really bothering me. They are not bad people so I don't want to not be around them ever again but I am surprised that there is so much negativity going around. I want to bring it up but I don't want to be an asshole about it. I would appreciate your advice.
Sincerely, Tired of the Hate and Negativity
The best thing you can do is follow your heart and trust your instinct.
Reevaluate your friendships and ponder the reasons as to why you have these individuals in your life. You must remember that people will come and go from your life, be it by your choice or theirs, so take hold of the reins and be in control of those you want in your reality. As the old saying goes, “you are who your friends are, so choose them wisely.”
I recommend finding yourself a new group of friends. However, if you choose to hold on to these, communicate your thoughts articulately with eloquence and class. If your group truly values you, they may be receptive to changing their perception of others. They may need to dig a little deeper to evaluate themselves before speaking in jest of others.
The Universe could also be telling you that it’s time to move on and find a new group of friends. All it takes is some independent time and you will find your newfound-self. Go out and conquer the world with your positive energy, as you are a ripple in the Universe's ocean!
You mustn’t allow yourself to be in an environment which is toxic to your energy as it only prevents you from evolving. Step up to the plate and be the best person you can be – for you!
Eric Kehela has worked as a life-coach and therapist and is currently pursuing a Master's degree in Professional Counseling. His goal is to make a difference and help others along the way.
