Friday, August 2, 2019

One Colorado: What Colorado's conversion therapy ban means to me.


By Silas Musick, he/him/his

Today, Colorado's historic ban on conversion therapy goes into effect. This makes us the 18th state to ban the harmful practice, and is an important step towards allowing LGBTQ Coloradans to live out their fullest lives.

As someone who testified in support of this bill, it has profound personal meaning to me. For the past few years, I have shared my story publicly. While it has often been difficult to open the most raw parts of myself, if my story helps just one struggling LGBTQ person, then it will be worth it.

When I came out as gay I was ridiculed, hushed, shamed, and pushed into silence. The months and years that followed my coming out were the darkest days of my life. I don’t wish that on anyone, especially youth who are seeking acceptance and belonging. Hours of conversion therapy to change who I am proved to be deeply damaging, and in 2010, following a long, dark depression, I nearly took my own life. Sadly, my story is not an isolated example and so many have actually lost their lives in this fight.

When Colorado's ban on conversion therapy was passed, I felt heartened and inspired. Colorado has risen to become a leader in LGBTQ equality, and I am so proud of us for banning this harmful, discredited practice. I believe in a society where we all live in our personal power and are celebrated rather than berated for our differences.

Despite this landmark legislation, we have a long way to go. One Colorado has been a central force in securing protections like the ban on conversion therapy, and they couldn't do it without your support. Whether it's $10, $50, or $100 each month - every dollar is invested in ensuring a more fair and just Colorado for all. Let's celebrate today, and get back to work on Monday.