Autumn is Provincetown’s Secret Season: A Second Summer of LGBTQ+ Events, Festivals and Cape Cod’s Glorious Fall Weather

Provincetown, MA – Blue skies, sunny weather, and sea breezes don’t end on Labor Day in Provincetown. The LGBTQ+ haven is spectacularly situated 60 miles out to sea at the sandy tip of Cape Cod. September is when Ptown begins its Secret Season, a glorious Second Summer that runs through early November. The summer beat continues but without the peak season crowds at Provincetown's fabled beaches, restaurants, art galleries, guesthouses, and boutiques.

It’s the time of year when those in the know head for the country’s most beloved queer sanctuary, when festivals, events, and celebrations of LGBTQ+ life, art, and literature make Provincetown a balmy haven for everyone. Here’s what’s in store for Fall 2023. 

SEPTEMBER

Swim for Life and Paddler Flotilla Weekend September 8-10

The 36th Provincetown Swim for Life & Paddler Flotilla is an annual event in one of the largest natural harbors in the world, where thousands of swimmers brave its unpredictable waters, chilly currents, and surging tides in the name of charity. The Provincetown Harbor event is a 1.2-mile swim along the shallow East End shoreline. They also sponsor a Swim in Wellfleet’s Great Pond that is one mile. To date, more than $7 million has been raised for AIDS, women’s health, and the community.

PAW Pet Appreciation Week & Parade September 17-23

CASAS (Carrie A. Seaman Animal Shelter) is hosting Pet Appreciation Week. CASAS is a no-kill animal shelter designed to support the animals of lower Cape Cod.  The kickoff party for Provincetown’s Pet Appreciation Week is at the Provincetown Brewing Company during their weekly “Barks & Brews” pet tea happy hour. The events include the annual Blessing of the Animals at the Church of Saint Mary of the Harbor, the Commercial Street Pet Parade, and the Boat-slip “Pet Tea.”

The Provincetown Tennessee Williams Theater Festival September 21-24

The Provincetown Tennessee Williams Theater Festival seeks to promote Tennessee William’s connection to the Cape by celebrating his avant-garde spirit and cultural contributions to the artistic community through a series of inspiring performances each year. This year’s theme is “Astounding: Tennessee Williams, Science Fiction and Fantasy,” with performances of plays and dramatic short stories by Williams that feature spaceships, aliens, vampires, ghosts and bizarre imaginary worlds.

Mates Leather Weekend September 28-October 2

Mates Leather Weekend brings together people who are looking to socialize and party with like-minded and leather gear-wearing peers. 

OCTOBER

Washashore Festival October 7-9

The Washashore Music & Arts Festival is a “Genre Bending Queer Music Festival,” an annual gathering celebrating the union of live music, good beer, and the everlasting singularity of Provincetown. Presented by Provincetown Brewing Co., Crown & Anchor, and Tangle-Made Productions, the Washashore Festival is committed to uplifting and reflecting Provincetown’s unique soul with performers that embody free expression, individuality, beauty, diversity, acceptance, and joy. There is a Net Gala at Crown & Anchor on October 7 while on October 8, Provincetown Brewing Company hosts The Righteous Babes Revue, the Red Room showcases Nectarine Girl and Man on Man, while Crown & Anchor presents a concert featuring Jordy. The concerts continue on Sunday, October 9, with a full line-up that includes Boy Radio and Rae Kahlil.

Women’s Week October 9-15

Whether it’s getting to see the best performers and comics in queer culture today, or just walking down Commercial Street holding hands, no festival on the planet celebrates women like Women’s Week. Highlights include Tea Dance, Crisp Autumn Sailing, wine tastings, film screenings, whale watching, the Women’s March Rally, and performances by Poppy Champlin, Diana DeMuth, and Lisa Koch.

Trans Week - the Original Fantasia Fair October 16-23

Part learning experience, part social gathering, and part reunion, the Original Fantasia Fair is a full immersion experience, meaning attendees can and usually do spend an entire week 24/7 presenting their gender as they identify.

Spooky Bear Halloween Weekend October 27-29

It will be a frightfully furry weekend in Ptown with Spooky Bear Halloween Weekend, with a monstrous medley of parties, dances, a haunted house, and a costume ball.

NOVEMBER

Provincetown Food & Wine Festival November 1-5

“Local Food for Global Wines” is the theme of this year’s Provincetown Food & Wine Festival. Ticketed events include the Opening Reception, Wine Dinners, and Grand Tastings.

Mr. New England Leather November 17-19

The annual pageant to name Mr. New England Leather 2024 with a Victory Celebration and a weekend to socialize.

Olive Klug Unveils Powerful Anthem "Song About America" Reflecting the Struggles and Triumphs of a Queer Journey

Los Angeles-based singer-songwriter Olive Klug, originally from Portland, has recently unveiled their latest musical creation, "Song About America." With thought-provoking lyrics and a captivating melody, the track serves as a poignant reflection on Olive's personal experiences as a queer individual while touring the United States. Olive Klug's debut album, titled "Don't You Dare Make Me Jaded," is set to release on August 11th via Nettwerk, promising a collection of free-spirited and introspective songs.

"Song About America" delves deep into the tapestry of American culture, politics, and social issues, shedding light on the persistent challenges faced by marginalized communities such as homophobia, transphobia, racism, and xenophobia. Olive's heartfelt lyrics offer a candid commentary on these pressing topics, provoking introspection and encouraging dialogue.

When asked about the inspiration behind the track, Olive shared, "I wrote this song in February 2023 while touring. I was going on a lot of long drives through the country while simultaneously taking in news about how multiple states were proposing and implementing anti-trans legislation that would significantly limit trans peoples' ability to access gender-affirming care. "One of my favorite lines in the song is ‘I feel like dying but there's just too many hills.’ I want to dedicate myself to change, to 'die for a cause,' but there are so many injustices and failed systems that exist in our country that it feels insurmountable. It feels impossible to write a 'Song About America' because there is so much to unpack that I couldn't possibly do it justice in 3-5 minutes."

As an openly queer artist, Olive has become an integral part of the LGBTQ+ community, and their firsthand experiences have fueled their passion for creating music that reflects the struggles and triumphs of their community. In "Song About America," Olive masterfully encapsulates the contradictions and hypocrisies that permeate the country's ideological divide, challenging the notion of progress and representation as substitutes for true liberation. "Song About America" acknowledges the work that still lies ahead in creating a more inclusive and equitable society. Olive's evocative songwriting resonates deeply, urging listeners to question the status quo and to actively contribute to positive change.

Out August 11th, Olive Klug’s "Don't You Dare Make Me Jaded" is a free-spirited, post-adolescence record about the uncertainty of the path less traveled by, choosing freedom over conformity, and allowing oneself to make mistakes. In return, Olive hopes the overarching sound pays homage to their favorite folk singer-songwriters, with poignant lyrics and passionate vocals as the record’s centerpiece. In their own words, they reveal this about their debut record, “The central theme of my debut album, ‘Don’t You Dare Make Me Jaded’ is exactly what it sounds like; a brave proclamation that in the face of a world that tries to make us conform, take away our rights, and convince us that all hope is lost, I refuse to become jaded. It’s about coming of age in the modern day; discovering ways to pursue joy, write my own rules, and learn how to take up space as someone who has been taught to make myself small.”

Helsinki: A Super Weekend of Music, Culture, and Sustainability

Helsinki is a vibrant city that offers a unique blend of contrasts. In a single day, you can immerse yourself in the serenity of nature, indulge in culinary delight at a Michelin-starred restaurant, and dance under the midnight sun. And if you happen to be in Helsinki during the last weekend of June, get ready for a super weekend packed with exciting events that showcase the city's diversity and vibrant culture.

This extraordinary weekend features a lineup of events that cater to various tastes and interests. From the colorful and empowering Helsinki Pride to the adrenaline-fueled Tuska Open Air Metal Festival and the pulsating U Nation electronic music event, there's something for everyone to enjoy.

But it's not just about entertainment; Helsinki's super weekend also highlights the city's strong commitment to sustainability. These events go beyond mere environmental considerations and actively promote social sustainability as well. By attending any of these events, you become part of a movement towards a greener and more inclusive future, where celebrations and responsible practices go hand in hand. All three events are part of Helsinki's Think Sustainably service, which aims to create a more sustainable and enjoyable city for residents and visitors alike.

Let's take a closer look at each of these remarkable events:

Helsinki Pride 

Embrace love and diversity Kickstart your super weekend with Helsinki Pride Week, the largest cultural and human rights event in Finland. This celebration of love and diversity brings people from all walks of life together, transcending boundaries and advocating for LGBTQ+ rights. Experience the vibrant rainbow flags, captivating parades, energetic parties, and enlightening discussions that define this empowering event. Helsinki Pride Week creates an inclusive atmosphere where individuals can express their true selves, fostering unity, acceptance, and pride within the community.

Tuska Festival 

Unleash the power of metal Calling all music enthusiasts and headbangers! The Tuska Festival is a must-visit event during your super weekend in Helsinki. Renowned as one of Europe's top-tier metal festivals, Tuska showcases an impressive lineup of local and international bands representing diverse metal genres. Prepare to have your senses ignited by thunderous riffs, commanding vocals, and electrifying performances. But Tuska is more than just a music festival; it's a gathering of like-minded metal lovers who come together to create a vibrant community. Explore the expo, savor delicious food, engage in talks, and immerse yourself in the entire metal culture.

U Nation 

Find your inner raver If electronic beats are more your style, then U Nation is the event for you. Hosted in the heart of Helsinki's cultural hub, U Nation takes place at the vibrant Kansalaistori Square. This exceptional event, organized for the first time, embodies values of diversity, inclusion, environmental sustainability, unity, and responsibility. With an incredible backdrop featuring Oodi library, Parliament House, Helsinki Music Centre, and Museum of Contemporary Art Kiasma, U Nation brings together a diverse community of music enthusiasts. Get ready to experience pulsating rhythms, euphoric melodies, and a sense of community that embraces diversity and fosters inclusivity.

As you plan your visit to Helsinki, make sure to mark your calendar for this super weekend of music, culture, and sustainability. It's a unique opportunity to immerse yourself in the city's vibrant atmosphere, celebrate love and diversity, unleash your inner headbanger, and let the electronic beats move your soul. Helsinki awaits, ready to provide an unforgettable experience that showcases the city's incredible spirit and commitment to a better future.

Over 200 LGBTQ+ and Allied Organizations Call on Business Community to Speak Out Against Extremist Anti-LGBTQ+ Attacks

Today, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the nation’s largest LGBTQ+ civil rights advocacy organization, in partnership with over 200 LGBTQ+ and allied organizations, called for Target and the business community to reject and speak out against anti-LGBTQ+ extremism this Pride Month. Recent pushback against businesses such as Anheuser-Busch and Target, blatantly organized by extremist groups, serves as a wake up call for all businesses that support the LGBTQ+ community. The coalition statement can be read in full HERE.

President of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) Kelley Robinson released the following statement:

“Extremist backlash to LGBTQ+ inclusion is not new. It’s an old, stale playbook that’s now hastily being labeled as ‘anti-woke’ from folks who want us back in the closet. These extremist groups and individuals continue to employ hate and intimidation.

But today, 200 plus organizations are here to tell our corporate allies not to bow to the bullies.

Allyship is sometimes uncomfortable, especially when your values are tested. Businesses that retreat from their own values of diversity, equity, and inclusion when anti-LGBTQ+ attacks, from statehouses to social media platforms, are at an all time high are making a short-term gamble that won’t just backfire now, it will backfire years into the future. We’ve seen it again and again: Businesses that stand up for the values they espouse send a powerful message to their employees, shareholders and customers that equality is not up for debate. It’s time for businesses to act on their values – stand up and speak out for LGBTQ+ equality.”

From Kelley Robinson’s USA Today opinion piece, June 5th: “It is in this atmosphere that companies are entering Pride Month – a timely reminder that inclusion is not selective nor half-hearted. Being an LGBTQ+ ally this Pride means moving beyond the seasonal rainbow logo to taking meaningful action – speaking out against hate-filled legislation, providing relocation benefits for workers who have to flee their states, and standing by the community when the water gets hot.”

Equality is good for business:

• The Gen Z consumer and workforce is not the future, they are the right now, and more than 1 in 5 of them identify as LGBTQ+.
• Research shows that if a brand publicly supports and demonstrates a commitment to expanding and protecting LGBTQ+ rights, Americans are 2x more likely to buy or use the brand. Americans ages 18-34 are 5.5x more likely to want to work at a company if it publicly supports and demonstrates a commitment to expanding and protecting LGBTQ+ rights.
• Seven in ten (71%) of U.S. LGBTQ+ adults are more likely to purchase from a company that “outreaches and advertises to the LGTBQ+ community” (Community Marketing Insights [CMI]).
• Internally, 68% of employees surveyed in 2021 would consider quitting their current job and working with an organization with a stronger viewpoint on the social issues that matter most to them (Gartner Inc.)
  • Employees whose employer has taken a strong stance on current societal and cultural issues are twice as likely to report high job satisfaction.

For over 20 years, the Human Rights Campaign has worked with companies on how to center values of diversity, equity and inclusion in policy and practice through the Corporate Equality Index and Workplace Equality program. HRC encourages businesses to sign the Count Us In pledge as a way to proactively demonstrate their unequivocal support for the LGBTQ+ community.

This Pride Month, NAMI's 'Mental Health Without Conditions' Campaign Gives Voice to the LGBTQ+ Community

The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization, today launched "Mental Health Without Conditions," a compassionate Pride Month campaign for LGBTQ+ dignity and equality.

NAMI is accentuating its commitment to unconditional support for the LGBTQ+ community, calling for increased awareness and action to address that community's mental health disparities and unique needs — not just in June, but every month.

"NAMI stands in solidarity with everyone navigating mental health conditions, particularly those within the LGBTQ+ community, who disproportionately experience obstacles to equal care," said NAMI Chief Innovation Officer Darcy Gruttadaro. "Our campaign's core theme, 'I Am NAMI Pride,' isn't merely a slogan — it's a powerful affirmation that underlines our identity. The 'I AM' within 'NAMI' reflects our collective dedication to mental health equity for every individual."

Bearing the inspiring hashtag #IAmNAMIPride, the campaign and a new landing page at nami.org/Pride offer a platform for people to share and express their solidarity and support. The page includes disturbing statistics about LGBTQ+ mental health, but it also tells individual stories that humanize the realities many LGBTQ+ people encounter in their mental health journeys.

Throughout June, NAMI encourages everyone to amplify their voices, share their stories and show their pride by tagging NAMI's social media accounts (linked at the bottom of this release) and using the hashtag #IAmNAMIPride. The campaign website provides shareable social media resources, including educational graphics, a special #IAmNAMIPride Facebook profile frame and ways to share personal experiences related to LGBTQ+ mental health.

The website also offers resources for people seeking support, including a directory of LGBTQ+ affirming mental health providers and information about NAMI's LGBTQ+ policy positions. These services are a part of NAMI's wider push to provide comprehensive support for the LGBTQ+ community.

The latest of those policies, adopted recently by the NAMI Board of Directors, addresses the timely issue of access to gender-affirming care, emphasizing its critical importance to the mental health of transgender, nonbinary and gender diverse individuals. It also opposes any public policies or laws, which have been proliferating nationwide, that limit, ban or criminalize such care.

Transgender individuals are nearly four times as likely to experience a mental health condition, compared to cisgender individuals. For transgender and nonbinary youth, these risks increase dramatically, including a higher likelihood of serious consideration of suicide and actual suicide attempts. Rather than limiting or banning life-saving care, NAMI urges the availability of evidence-based practices that improve mental health outcomes for transgender and nonbinary individuals.

LGBTQ+ people face higher risks of mental health conditions and suicide. Bullying, hate crimes, discrimination and lack of access to mental health care contribute to these disparities.

"Mental Health Without Conditions" is a step toward changing this narrative, creating a safer, fairer and more supportive environment for everybody regardless of their gender identity or sexuality.

Human Rights Campaign Calls on Target to Stand Firm in Support for LGBTQ+ Community; Reject Threats from Conservative Extremists

Amid extremist anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric and attacks on businesses that stand by values of diversity and inclusion, retail giant Target is the latest center of attack for extremist groups. In response, it’s been reported that Target is pulling some of its Pride merchandise from its sales floors across the country.

President of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) Kelley Robinson released the following statement:

“Target should not be responding so easily to criticism and threats from the likes of the Proud Boys. Target should put the products back on the shelves and ensure their Pride displays are visible on the floors, not pushed into the proverbial closet. That’s what the bullies want. Target must be better.

“Extremist groups and individuals work to divide us and ultimately don’t just want rainbow products to disappear, they want us to disappear. For the past decade, the LGBTQ+ community has celebrated Pride with Target—it’s time that Target stands with us and doubles-down on their commitment to us.

“Going into Pride Month – a protest for our fundamental rights and a celebration of visibility and queer joy – businesses play a bigger role than they ever have before in advancing LGBTQ+ inclusion and representation. The LGBTQ+ community has been experiencing our worst year on record for anti-LGBTQ+ legislation – over 520 bills that aim to strip us of our very existence, dignity and history, from the doctor’s office to the classroom to the sports field.

“Businesses that are silent or are retreating at a time when anti-LGBTQ+ hatred, from statehouses to social media platforms, is at an all time high are abdicating their responsibility to stand by their values of diversity, equity and inclusion. We’ve seen it again and again: businesses that stand up for the values they espouse send a powerful message to their employees, shareholders and customers that equality is not up for debate. Every time businesses stand up and speak out for LGBTQ+ equality, they come out on top, regardless of baseless, anti-business attacks.”

Pride Journey: Coastal Mississippi

By Joey Amato

Every now and then I visit a destination I know absolutely nothing about. That happened a few years ago when I visited Oklahoma City and I fell in love with OKC. This time around, that destination was Coastal Mississippi, more specifically Biloxi, Gulfport, and Ocean Springs. In fact, the only thing I knew about the Biloxi was the hotel I stayed at, Beau Rivage. I knew it was owned by MGM Resorts, but that was about it. The rest of the trip was going to be a surprise.

For this particular trip, I wanted to focus on health and wellness and luckily, Beau Rivage’s most recent renovation included two floors full of Stay Well rooms as well as an updated spa. My gulf view room came complete with an aromatherapy machine, ultra high-end linens, a memory foam mattress, and pillows as well as a vitamin C dispenser hooked up to my shower. I had never seen one of those before, so I had to ask what it was.

After an early check in, I departed for Ocean Springs, a quaint town just east of Beau Rivage. My first stop was a place called Shearwater Pottery. Apparently, it is very well known to everyone but me. After posting pictures on social media, I received numerous comments from friends wanting to visit. Shearwater Pottery was founded in 1928 by Peter Anderson and from the 1920s through the present day, Shearwater Pottery has produced art pottery, utilitarian ware, figurines, decorative tiles, and other pottery pieces.

I had the opportunity to meet with Margie Ashley, the daughter of Peter Anderson who told me about her family’s legacy in Ocean Springs. At that time, Coastal Mississippi was known for fishing and not so much for the arts, so her family was viewed as outcasts but the community. Margie told me people used to called them the “crazy Andersons.” But they eventually had the last laugh as the family name has become as much of Coastal Mississippi culture as seafood gumbo.

A few minutes up the road from Shearwater Pottery is the Walter Anderson Museum of Art. Walter was the brother of Peter Anderson and equally as talented, creating thousands of works throughout his lifetime. Many of Walter Anderson’s paintings, drawings, murals, block prints, sculpture, carvings, and writings are on display at the museum.

The pièce de résistance is the Community Center, which is the site of Walter Anderson’s monumental 3,000 square foot mural, which depicts the historic discovery of the Mississippi Coast and its diverse climates. The city commissioned Walter Anderson in 1950 for a fee of $1.00 and the project took 16 months to complete.

For dinner, head to Vestige, a farm-to-table restaurant in Ocean Springs helmed by head chefs Alex Perry and his wife, Kumi Omori who were recently nominated for a James Beard Award. Vestige offers a pre-fixed menu which changes on a regular basis and contains only the freshest local ingredients. And if it’s not local, they fly it in from its land of origin to insure its freshness. We began our meal with sashimi of Hamachi complete with a foie gras emulsion, rose, purple sweet potato and magnolia flower kombucha veil. Yes, that was one dish and just an appetizer, but probably my favorite item on the menu.

After 3 more courses which consisted of a piece of perfectly cooked fish to charcoal grilled wagyu beef, the meal comes to an end with a delectable strawberry Bavarian, with cacao mint genoise, whipped match, grapefruit lemon curd and pecan ginger shortbread. This wasn’t just a meal; it was an experience worthy of a James Beard nomination and definitely the award for Best Chef: South.

You’ll need the rest of the night to recover from a food coma, so head back to Beau Rivage for some much-needed rest or hit the casino if your heart desires.

Head out the next morning to the recently opened Mississippi Aquarium in Gulfport, about 15 minutes west of Biloxi. The state-of-the-art facility is home to a variety of sea life and is one of the crown jewels of the area.

I can never see enough animals, so next on the agenda was the Institute of Marine Mammal Studies located at Ocean Adventures Marine Park. Guests can come up close and personal with stingrays, sea lions and dolphins. I had the opportunity to interact with a beautiful male dolphin, getting to rub his belly, give him commands and feed him some delicious fish. For my, I mean his hard work, I got a kiss from one of my favorite animals.

On the way back to your hotel, stop by Coastal Roast Coffee for an afternoon pick me up before dinner. I wasn’t sure what to expect at White Pillars. The bar was set really high at Vestige the night before, but I was in for another treat. We began our meal with a bowl of Oyster & Artichoke soup. I was a bit hesitant to order this at first as I didn’t want to begin my meal with something heavy, but when it arrived, it turned out to be one of the best soups I’ve had in a long time. It was light and fragrant, consisting of Gulf oysters, fennel, and oyster mushrooms in a coconut milk broth. When dining near the coast, why not try the Gulf Seafood Tower, two tiers of fresh oysters, mahi crudo, smoked fish dip and amberjack ceviche.

And those were just the starters. For my main course, I ordered the Duck Ramen prepared with a confit duck leg, collards, togarashi, duck cracklins, and the traditional soft-boiled egg. In fact, the egg was the only thing traditional about the dish, which was rich and delicious. The duck was cooked to perfection and the broth was fantastic.

The area is home to two LGBTQ bars, Sipp’s in Gulfport, and Just Us Lounge, located within walking distance of Beau Rivage. The crowd at Just Us was a melting pot of the area’s LGBTQ community, extremely diverse and welcoming. One thing to note is that smoking is still legal inside bars, so if that bothers you, there is a large outdoor space available.

I know I said I wanted to focus on health and wellness during this trip, but I seemed to have detoured from my mission somewhere in Ocean Springs. One can’t resist the food in Coastal Mississippi, so screw the diet for one more day and head to The Roasted Bean located in the lobby of Beau Rivage and ask for an order of beignets. These are not listed anywhere in plain site and are the best kept secret of the hotel. I received a tip from the captain of the Biloxi Shrimping Trip, which I went on the morning prior. The powdered sugar pastries where the best I’ve ever had. Light, airy, and simply delicious. They couldn’t have been that many calories, right?

End your stay in Coastal Mississippi with a relaxing CBD massage at the The Spa at Beau Rivage. The 80-minute massage uses CBD body oils as well as a Moor Mud treatment to soothe tired muscles and back pain. Playing with dolphins, eating oysters, and savoring beignets all weekend was quite stressful.
 
If you are looking for a relaxed seaside vacation, put Coastal Mississippi on your radar. There are many unique experiences that will make your stay truly memorable.
 
Visit coastalmississippi.com for more information about the destination.

PFLAG to Honor Tom Daley with the “George Takei Advocate Award”

On Friday, March 3 PFLAG will honor Olympic gold medalist and LGBTQ+ activist Tom Daley with the 2023 George Takei Advocate Award during the iconic LGBTQ+ organization’s 50th Anniversary Gala event. That evening, PFLAG will also bestow honors on Big Freedia (Breaking Barriers Award) and Mondelēz (Straight for Equality in Business Award) at a spectacular event hosted by Amber Ruffin, featuring Tati Gabrielle (YOU, Uncharted), Eureka (WE’RE HERE), Rose Abdoo (HACKS), and more, with performances by Robin S., Evann McIntosh, Johnny Manuel, and VINCINT.

“From a very young age, I’ve felt a responsibility to use my platform to make a difference and over time, I've become more and more confident in myself as an LGBTQ+ athlete to do so. When I’ve been competing in countries where it’s illegal to be me, I’ve been so proud to stand on the podium and win medals knowing that I’m visible to the LGBTQ+ community watching in that area, showing that they’re not alone. I would not have had this resilience and determination if it wasn't for the visibility of other LGBTQ+ people like George Takei who shine light on the issues important to our LGBTQ+ community. I am so honored to receive this recognition from PFLAG. We've come so far, but in a time when people are trying to take away our rights, I'll continue to help make a difference to everyone in the LGBTQ+ community where I can ,” said Tom Daley, recipient of PFLAG’s 2023 George Takei Advocate Award.

The George Takei Advocate Award honors a person who uses their visibility to help advance PFLAG’s work to create a caring, just, and affirming world for LGBTQ+ people and those who love them. The award is named in honor of actor, social justice activist, social media mega-power, and New York Times bestselling author George Takei.

“I first met Tom in 2019 in New York. This was before he competed for and won his Olympic Gold Medal, before he was named to the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire, and before his powerful BBC documentary ‘Illegal to Be Me,’ but after he had become a parent. It was clear then that Tom knew his role would forever be to make this world a better, more affirming place for LGBTQ+ people and families,” said George Takei, a longtime supporter and friend of PFLAG. “I am honored to lend my name to an award from PFLAG National that recognizes the courage to advocate for LGBTQ+ people, and I am proud that Tom Daley will be the first to receive it,” continued Takei, who is currently in London performing in his show Allegiance.”

“Through his work to both raise awareness about disparities facing LGBTQ+ people and also to use his platform to reduce barriers to LGBTQ+ affirmation and safety, Tom Daley is making a difference around the world and in sport. PFLAG National is honored to recognize George Takei’s legacy, and we are proud to present Tom Daley with the first George Takei Advocate Award,” said Brian K. Bond, Executive Director of PFLAG National.

Olympic gold medalist and double World Champion Tom Daley is the most decorated British diver of all time and a global LGBTQ+ advocate. Shortly after the London 2012 Olympic Games, Tom Daley came out in a YouTube video that garnered global attention, adding his name to the very short list of openly-gay athletes. A multi-Commonwealth Games champion, Tom campaigned for LGBTQ+ equality at the games, ensuring all athletes feel welcome and safe, visiting Commonwealth countries with anti-LGBTQ+ laws for a BBC documentary Tom Daley: Illegal To Be Me. In A Commonwealth Games first, Tom walked in the flag ceremony carrying a Progress Pride flag alongside LGBTQ+ heroes in the Commonwealth, a sign to those in homophobic countries that they are seen.

PFLAG’s 50th Anniversary Gala celebrates a history of leading with love, and will bring together LGBTQ+ people, parents, families, advocates, allies, celebrities and business leaders at an incredible in-person event at New York’s Marriott Marquis on the evening of March 3. Serving on PFLAG’s 50th Anniversary Gala Honorary Host Committee are celebrated LGBTQ+ people and allies: Andrew Rannells, Audra McDonald, Chef Melissa King, Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Justin Mikita, Kristin Chenoweth, Martha Plimpton, Matt Doyle, Nate Berkus, Patrick Stewart, Sunny Ozell, Will Swenson, and Wilson Cruz. For more information about PFLAG’s 50th Anniversary Gala, visit pflag.org/gala50.

Books: What's Your Zip Code Story?

Race, gender and sexual orientation get talked about a lot during discussions that center on diversity, but it’s not enough, says inclusion consultant Christopher “CJ” Gross. Social class — and related biases — must be part of the conversation.

 

“I believe that the class conversation is just as important,” Gross said during a recent interview. “It’s inclusive of all of the different identities and the things we talk about; however, what the conversation around class does, it allows us to get down to the equity component.”

 

In his new book, What's Your Zip Code Story? Understanding and Overcoming Class Bias in the Workplace, Gross takes a deep dive into why social class matters and where it fits in a company’s DEI efforts.

 

“The renewed focus on class, race, and equality in the workplace and beyond is making an indelible mark on society,” Gross said. “This clarion call for change is sweeping inequality from every corner of the nation, including law enforcement, schools and businesses.”

 

What’s Your Zip Code Story offers research-based solutions for employees seeking professional growth and for business leaders seeking new ways to engage their teams. Gross provides strategies to help class-migrants — whether college students, recent graduates or overlooked employees — climb the career lattice and transform themselves from undervalued employees into respected leaders. He also offers insights to help organizations understand the impact of diversity on a business’s productivity, turnover and revenue.

 

What’s Your Zip Code Story is a powerful book that expands the conversation surrounding class bias, race and equity in the workplace, and offers effective solutions.

 

“Each of us has our biases and cultural preferences, which makes it very hard for us to understand the perspectives of others,” Gross added. “It’s time we talked about it.”

 

Author CJ Gross is a TEDx presenter, international speaker and the founder of Ascension Worldwide, a firm dedicated to Diversity, Equity, and Inclusivity training and consulting based in the Washington, D.C., area. Gross has 20 years of experience as an international organizational development consultant specializing in leadership development and diversity and inclusion. He is a certified Social + Emotional Intelligence coach, trainer, Keirsey Temperament professional, Intercultural Development Inventory Administrator and executive coach, with additional expertise in organizational mediation.

 

He also serves as a Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Master Faculty for the University of Maryland, Baltimore County, Center for Innovation and Business Management, Adjunct Faculty for the Community College of Baltimore County and Adjunct Professor in the MBA program for St. Bonaventure University.

What’s New in the Florida Keys & Key West for LGBTQ Visitors

The Florida Keys & Key West, internationally known for their longstanding heritage of diversity, are a leading LGBTQ vacation destination. The southernmost U.S. island chain continues to appeal to LGBTQ visitors with ever-evolving “only in the Keys” experiences and communities renowned for their welcoming and accepting attitude.

While countless travelers access the Keys by driving down the Florida Keys Overseas Highway from mainland Florida, flying into Key West from many major U.S. cities also is an option. Six airlines — Allegiant, American, Delta, JetBlue, Silver and United — operate more than 20 nonstop U.S. routes to Key West International Airport.

“2022 is proving to be another exciting year for the LGBTQ community in Key West and the Florida Keys,” said Pony Charvet, LGBTQ sales manager for the Keys’ Monroe County Tourist Development Council. “New events are in the planning stages, many longtime events are back this year, and Key West’s iconic rainbow crosswalks were redone to once again make the Pride corridor of Duval Street shine.”

Here's what’s new in the Keys and Key West:

Keys Airports

Key West International Airport (EYW) is finalizing plans for its $90-plus million terminal designed to improve the level of service for Keys travelers. Elements are to include a new concourse A with enhanced security checkpoint, concessions and baggage claim areas; a spacious departure area; and glass-enclosed jet bridges connecting planes to the facility. The target date for completion is October 2024. Visit eyw.com or call 305-809-5200.

Keys Landmarks

In Key West, four signature rainbow crosswalks spanning all four corners at the intersection of Duval and Petronia streets in the heart of the LGBTQ entertainment district have been refurbished by the City of Key West. The crosswalks, featuring long bands of the six colors of the rainbow flag, are composed of preformed thermoplastic color stripes heat-treated with propane torches and permanently affixed to the pavement. Originally installed on Duval in 2015, the crosswalks are a city landmark and popular photo stop.

In the Middle Keys a 60-passenger tram has debuted to transport visitors along a 2.2-mile span of the historic Old Seven Mile Bridge to Pigeon Key. The colorful tram features a locomotive front and two 30-passenger coaches. The 2.2-mile span of the bridge, nicknamed "Old Seven" and listed on the National Register of Historic Places, reopened to cycling, walking and other pedestrian recreation in January following extensive multi-year renovations. Old Seven was originally the centerpiece of railroad magnate Henry Flagler's Florida Keys Over-Sea Railroad, which debuted in 1912 and connected the Keys with each other and mainland Florida for the first time. Pigeon Key, a tiny island nestled beneath the bridge, was once home to about 400 workers constructing the railroad. Today the island features a museum and offers opportunities to picnic and snorkel. Daily tours are available. Visit pigeonkey.net or call 305-743-5999.

Keys Accommodations

In Key West, the 34-room clothing-optional all-male Equator Resort, featuring two pools and wide sundecks, loungers, and whirlpools, has enhanced its accommodations with higher quality linens and toiletries and added an in-room digital compendium accessible on property or remotely. Management also has implemented a new text-messaging option that enables guests to text the front desk staff directly with any housekeeping or concierge requests, allowing increased social distancing. Outdoor upgrades include new sun loungers located around the pool areas and sundecks. The property is located at 822 Fleming St. Visit equatorresort.com or call 305-294-7775.

The 17-room Alexander’s Guesthouse, located at 1118 Fleming St. in Key West, is slated to complete renovations of its pool and jacuzzi areas in late August 2022. Alexander’s is an LGBTQ property that also welcomes friends of the LGBTQ community that are age 21 or older. The three renovated homes that comprise the property date back to the early 1900s and retain many original touches. Visit alexanderskeywest.com or call 305-294-9919.

Key West's world-renowned Island House Resort, an all-male clothing-optional property at 1129 Fleming St., has extended its value-added "Buy 4 Nights, Get 3 Free" offer for another year. The earning period for complimentary nights is Nov. 7, 2022, through June 11, 2023; the redemption period is set for June 12 through Sept. 28, 2023. In other news, Island House will be closed Sept. 5-12, 2023, in order to perform plumbing upgrades to the main building as well as an exciting refresh to the poolside back bar. The property features 39 rooms, suites and apartments; an onsite bar and cafe that offers 24-hour food and beverage service; a pool, Jacuzzis, saunas and a gym. Visit facebook.com/IslandHouseKW or call 305-294-6284. 

Key West’s New Orleans House, located at 724 Duval St. in the center of the LGBTQ entertainment district, has upgraded linens and towels in its 14 guest rooms and is planning a 2022-24 expansion and renovation of its outdoor venues. The male-only guesthouse currently features a full-service Tiki bar, Jacuzzi, pool, gym and spacious sundeck. Renovations are to include an expanded Tiki bar with increased seating capacity, a men’s sauna and a private club. Visit neworleanshousekw.com or call 305-293-9800.

La Te Da Hotel, a 15-room all-welcome adult-only property at 1125 Duval St. in Key West, has slated September 2022 for a complete renovation of its outdoor bar and seating areas. The gay-owned and -operated property features beautifully appointed guest rooms, a pool, two full-service bars and multiple entertainment venues with live entertainment. Visit lateda.com or call 305-296-6706.

In Islamorada, Chesapeake Beach Resort is adding 13 new oceanfront villas (including two stand-alones) and a new Tiki bar, boat ramp and dock, scheduled to open this fall. The resort lobby, with a newly added gift shop, has been fully renovated. The property features 52 rooms and suites including 32 oceanfront and 20 standard rooms, each with balcony; two pools, a beach bar and sandy beach venue for weddings, events, family reunions and corporate retreats. Kayaks and fishing rods are available for rent. It’s located at 83409 Overseas Highway. Visit chesapeake-resort.com or call 305-664-4662.

Also in Islamorada, the 27-acre Cheeca Lodge & Spa is undergoing major resort enhancements, including 43 newly built luxury oceanfront suites and a new stand-alone 10,000-square-foot event center. The 550-square-foot king and double-queen suites feature floor-to-ceiling glass doors, opening to an expansive private lanai with signature open-air spa tubs. Slated to debut in September 2022, the Islamorada Ballroom, located just north of the resort’s main lodge, is promoted as the Upper Keys’ largest meeting and event venue. The ballroom is to accommodate up to 1,000 guests for receptions and 788 for banquet-style dinners. Retractable walls create three breakout rooms for smaller events and functions. Cheeca Lodge & Spa offers a total of 244 guest rooms and suites. Visit cheeca.com or call 305-664-4651.

Keys Heritage

The Key West Business Guild is planning a 20th-anniversary celebration to commemorate the island city’s famed 1.25-mile-long sea-to-sea rainbow flag, with events to take place during the guild-produced Pride festivities set for June 7-11, 2023. The massive flag was sewn in Key West in 2003 by original rainbow flag creator Gilbert Baker to mark the 25th anniversary of his original banner’s debut. Baker spent three months on the island while he and a handful of dedicated helpers sewed approximately 17,600 linear yards of fabric that weighed more than three tons. During Pride 2003, the world’s longest rainbow flag was unfurled by volunteers along the entire length of Key West’s Duval Street — and its ends were dipped simultaneously into the Gulf of Mexico and the Atlantic Ocean in a sea-to-sea demonstration of acceptance and pride. Specific details of the anniversary celebration have not yet been announced. Visit gaykeywestfl.com/pride/.

Keys Charters

Blu Q Sailing Adventures, which has offered gay all-male clothing-optional snorkel and kayak, sandbar, and sunset sail tours since 1996, has updated its 2022-23 schedule. The Sandbar & Snorkel excursion is currently slated to run from May through October, with the Kayak & Snorkel experience planned from November through April. Both trips are four hours long and feature spectacular scenery with stops at serene backcountry areas and other uncrowded locales. Blu Q’s two-hour sunset sails are scheduled to operate year-round and are to include all-welcome departures on a request basis only. Visit bluqkeywest.com or call 305-923-7245.

Key West’s Island Vibe Charters, the LGBTQ–owned and –operated “all welcome” charter operation, offers private excursions to offshore sandbars and to the reef for snorkeling trips for families and groups of up to six. Its 28-foot, twin-engine Edgewater boat offers bow and stern seating. Four- to six-hour trips, priced from $680, include sandbar and snorkeling excursions. Ice, drinking water, life vests and snorkeling and beach gear are provided. Visit islandvibecharterskw.com or call 305-509-2186.

LGBT Charters’ 55-foot private yacht Bottoms Up can be chartered for up to six people for dolphin watching, kayaking and water activities or to go to a remote island off Key West. The company is owned by Joseph Schroeder, who also owns Bourbon St. Pub Entertainment Complex, New Orleans House and the 801 Bourbon Bar on Key West’s Duval Street. The vessel is based at Conch Harbor Marina at 951 Caroline St. Six-hour trips are priced from $2,500. Visit LGBTcharters.com or call 305-747-0343.

Keys Attractions

In Marathon, Crane Point Museum and Nature Center is now listed on the National Register of Historic Places as an attraction worthy of preservation by the U.S. Department of the Interior. The attraction’s on-site Adderly House — built in 1904 as a classic Bahamian-style home and the oldest Keys house outside of Key West — also is listed on the National Register. Also on-site at the historic attraction: a bright-red Florida East Coast Railway train car, located at the site of Marathon’s original train station; and the Crane House, built in 1954, renovated in late 2021 and the first venue outside of Key West to earn the Florida Keys Historic Foundation star designation. Visit cranepoint.net or call 305-743-9100.

In the Lower Keys, the 524-acre Bahia Honda State Park, with three beaches, has reopened its mile-long Sandspur Beach on the park's north side after completing a full $2.96 million restoration. Its Sandspur campgrounds, a 155-car parking area and two shower towers at the day-use area also are open. Eighty total campsites — 73 sites for both RVs and tents with electricity and water and seven nonelectric tent-only sites — accommodate overnight visitors. Additionally, the park has six cabins on stilts that can be reserved up to 11 months in advance. Park amenities include pavilions, freshwater showers, restrooms, grills, picnic tables, beach wheelchairs and a mobi floating chair for in-water accessibility. Concessionaire Coral Reef Park Co. sells food, souvenirs and beachwear; rents kayaks; and operates daily snorkel trips to Looe Key Reef. Sandspur and Loggerhead beaches are located on the park’s Atlantic side and Calusa Beach is on the Bahia Honda Channel side. The park is located at 36850 Overseas Highway. Visit floridastateparks.org/BahiaHonda or call 305-872-2353.

The Tennessee Williams Museum at 513 Truman Ave. in Key West has added memorabilia about Williams’ writing, filming and premiering “The Rose Tattoo” in Key West during the 1950s. In addition, in 1981 Williams gifted use of his name to the Tennessee Williams Fine Arts Center, now the Tennessee Williams Theatre, at 5901 College Road. The exhibits are enhanced with original photos by the late local photographer Don Pinder and playbills signed by Williams among other artifacts. The openly gay playwright’s 34-year residence in Key West helped the city gain widespread literary and cultural recognition. Managed by the Key West Art and Historical Society, the museum has self-guided tours Thursdays through Sundays from 9:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Private curator-led group tours are available for a minimum of four. Visit kwahs.org/museums/tennessee-williams/visit or call 305-204-4527.

The Key West Butterfly & Nature Conservatory — known for its tropical gardens, hundreds of free-flying butterflies and a wide variety of small tropical birds — is home to local celebrity flamingos Rhett and Scarlett. During “Flamingle” encounters, daily from 4:30 to 5:45 p.m., guests seated in a picturesque gazebo overlooking the conservatory’s pond can enjoy interacting with Rhett and Scarlett as the pair roams freely. Located at 1316 Duval St., the conservatory is open for tours from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily (last admission at 4:30 p.m.). In addition, groups can preschedule after-hours twilight tours to explore the conservatory just before sunset and experience a butterfly twilight “dance.” Visit keywestbutterfly.com or call 305-296-2988.

Keys Nightlife

The Aquaplex, where “reality is a drag,” has unveiled a new look at 711 Duval St. in the heart of Key West’s LBGTQ entertainment district. The property now has multiple venues including an outdoor Hawaiian-themed restaurant — Poké in the Rear — serving lunch and dinner with a full bar in the compound’s back patio area. There’s also an expanded dance floor and new lighting and sound at CLUB 504 at the Sidebar, 504 Angela St.; the Back Bar, an outdoor garden bar; and the 22&CO bar, known for its neon flamingo décor. All venues are accessible from within the complex. The Aquaplex is locally owned and staffed by a family of longtime employees and drag professionals. It's open from noon to 2 a.m. daily, with new shows and events designed to create variety for patrons. Visit aquakeywest.com or call 305-294-0555.

Keys Emporiums

Two emporiums in the 700 block of Key West’s Duval Street, the heart of the LGBTQ shopping and entertainment district, have become favorites for visitors.

LGBTQ-themed gift store In Touch, located at 706 Duval St., offers unique greeting cards, collectibles like December Diamonds, works from local artists, fun T-shirts, unique gifts and Christmas ornaments. The self-proclaimed “gayest, most fun store in Key West” has introduced a new line of collectible “Divas” as well as “Mermen” and “Mermaids” ornaments created by December Diamonds. Visit fairylarrys.com or call 305-294-1995.

Graffitti Menswear, 721 Duval St., a premier gay-owned and -operated men’s store, is celebrating its 35th anniversary. Selling casual clothing and accessories, the emporium is best known for its wide selection of trendy swimwear and underwear. The retailer is a popular first stop for newly arrived visitors seeking to expand their island-wear wardrobes. Visit graffitti-378740.square.site or call 305-295-003.